Mediation not going forward - Information Sheet

You have received a letter from us telling you that you have been invited to a Mediation Information Assessment Meeting (MIAM) with a Family Mediator. The letter also explains that the family mediator has concluded that Mediation is not suitable and therefore not going forward.

You are probably feeling confused as to why we have therefore invited you to a MIAM and why we have bothered to write to you?

We completely understand how confusing this is and have therefore prepared this document for you to explain further.

First we need to look at what the purpose of a Mediation Information Assessment Meeting is.

1. To gain an understanding of your situation and your concerns;
2. To explain the family mediation process and other processes applicable;
3. To explore whether mediation is suitable;
4. To consider your options.

After reading those points you may well think why do I need to attend a MIAM if the mediator has already deemed mediation unsuitable?

The reason we are still inviting you to a mediation information assessment meeting is so that we can provide you with the relevant information and so that the mediation process remains fair. We feel it is better for you to find out all the information now and be able to make informed decisions than find out later when you were not given the option of attending. There is no pressure for you to attend this meeting. There is also the fact that the mediator does need to record whether or not you were invited to mediation and if not why and justify this to their professional practice consultant (PPC).

Although you may think attending a mediation information assessment meeting is unnecessary it could prove useful in the future if mediation becomes suitable to proceed. Circumstances over time can change and mediation can in some instances go from unsuitable to suitable.

The family mediator might also able to provide relevant signposting to services and agencies which would help you in your situation during your MIAM. This can include free legal advice, emotional support etc.

The mediator can also help you look at your options for example what happens next. They can provide you with the relevant information including legal processes, and other forms of alternative dispute resolution.